Friday, January 4, 2019

INBEDWITH SHAUNA Episode 16 Show Notes

In this episode I share a story time of how the cops stole Christmas, teach you how to hack the honeymoon phase, the benefits of "if you can't beat em, join em", and we venture into my DMs to answer some question and of course have a good laugh. 

My Paradigm

"Men are as loyal as their options". - Bill Mahar
I'm a bit of a pessimist when it comes to the loyalty of men. I get told all the time "not all men cheat" well, this is usually coming from a woman that wants to believe or blindly believes her man is faithful. I hate to break it to you but that's just not the case. No not all men cheat all the time. But almost all men cheat at least once upon a time.   

You don't have to love everyone you have sex with just as you don't have to have sex with everyone you love.
Love and sex are two very different things. I believe it was Christopher Ryan who said something to the fact that sex and love are like wine and cheese, they go very well together but are two very different things that can be enjoyed separately.

Jealousy is rooted in fear
Jealousy usually comes from a insecurity that you will lose someone to someone else. If you are secure in yourself and in the relationship, there is nothing to fear.

"Poor is the man who's pleasures depend on the permission of another" - Madonna
It's sad to me that many people have a sexuality that is kept prisoner by their significant other. I do not own my partner and he does not own me. Our bodies are our own and not the property of the other.

Cheating isn't a reason to end a relationship. Deceit is.
The expectations of monogamy are not only unnatural but also unrealistic. Its insane to me that a couple will breakup a otherwise happy home and the lives of their children because some spent 10 minutes naked with another person. It's selfish and a serious over reaction.

The feeling of love isn't real. It's a chemical byproduct of the drive to reproduce.
Humans are naturally serial social monogamists. We receive physical and psychological mating cues that cause us to "fall in love" and pair bond. This pair bond is not sexually exclusive and lasts 3 to 4 years, long enough to reproduce and raise a baby into childhood. 
The love for our children however is a bond that usually does not fade. It is in our best interest to watch over, protect, and care for our offspring in order to insure our genes make it into future generations. 

Euthanizing You Heart

The Honeymoon Phase

If you can't beat 'em, Join 'em
Women often times see each other as competitors. This is so unnecessary! There are no benefits to jealousy. Try reaching out and becoming friends with someone you feel may be a rival for whatever reason. Lift each other up! Men aren't worth the negativity

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