Friday, January 5, 2018

Why Did He Cheat?

I have come to learn that women take cheating way too personal. Your husband/boyfriend cheating on you does not mean you’re ugly, fat, not good enough in bed, don’t have enough sex, and most importantly it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Men and women cheat for very different reasons. Women usually go astray when they feel they are missing something be that mentally, emotionally, or physically and because of that, when their partner cheats they often assume it’s for these reasons because it’s what they can understand. Of course men can cheat for these reasons but usually it’s simply because they had the opportunity, they were turned on, and their penis took over. He wasn’t thinking about how this would hurt you because he didn’t think of it as emotional. Bending the hot delivery girl over the counter did not change in any way his love for you. It’s not personal. It’s just sex and not worth ending a relationship over. Woman need to understand that sex does not equal love. Men just don’t work that way. My mother always told me that sex to men is like a handshake, it means nothing and they will do it with just about anyone. She was right. It just took me years of unnecessary pain to truly understand it. It’s the feeling of betrayal that hurts. If people would just be real with one another and stop putting rules society deems necessary on their relationships we would have a lot more women with happier hearts.

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