I once thought it safe to stay strange. If you’re the other woman, you always know what’s going on. I’ve recently discovered to my surprise the other woman wasn’t me. Apparently the tables turned when I wasn’t looking.
It’s a funny thing a man can do to you when you think your equals. When you both seem to be getting what you want out of whatever non traditional relationship you may be having. There comes a time when a man believes he is in love or has deep feelings for someone else. At which point he must disconnect from you in a feeble attempt at faithfulness. He becomes cold without warning and at times will lash out cruelly leaving you feeling as if you never really knew him and baffled as to why he would act this way towards you because after all you were his secret.
But don’t worry ladies. Soon his new found infatuation will fade and he will undoubtedly return. Why? Well I can only assume it is because he is a man and that means his ego will never allow him rest without a secret. Time will tell if my theory rings true….
Less than 24 hours later...
I’m happy to report that again my theory was proven and in fact, sometimes there is never an attempt at faithfulness at all. Before I knew it I was back where I’m most comfortable. Back where the view is clear the pain is soft.